How do handle those you can not control: Part 1

 

Well, for starters everyone is their own person, and Rules / Laws apply to those who CHOOSE to abide by them lol seriously ..... 

Lets take children for example : teach them all you know and all the right things to do. However, as soon as they are on their own, and its all their own personal decisions: You can choose to get involved or let them handle it with guidance or on their own just like they made the decision. 

Asking for help is not always received well if you don't ask for advice, but the worst is asking for advice not taking it and asking for help later lol.

Now lets talk about neighbors, co-workers and those you can not avoid. No matter what you do the way others see you is not in your control. You would have to bend to something you may not be if you want everyone to love / like or pretend for you. 

I literally bought a piece of the worst property in the world, because it is on the side of a mountain. No neighbors for 2 years and then bamm ! This couple has a prebuilt shed delivered, and they drive by several times a day.... I can not control that but I can let them know its ridiculous and a pain in my ass. We wanted to live here without utilities and without the city traffic, but they make enough trips to be a neighborhood. 

So, we decided to consolidate expenses, move the homesite down in the valley more, and move the animals to the midway.  We are going to build a nice fence around everything the road touches and hopefully never see the yuppy neighbors again lol 

So is your life exactly like you want it, and are you true to your inner color ? I am loving, smart and very creative. Lately, I have allowed myself to spiral into many different currents, however I am going back to dirty feet, less then clean shaved and earthly woman I want to be. I don't care if I am not your cup of tea, however I am going to be me. 

Let me know if you have some non controllable in your life.